National Cleavage Day

It is National Cleavage Day #NCD, a day to appreciate being a woman and having breasts. And while I love my breasts, as most of you know, they have had a bit of help to be what they are today.
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But a day like today is not just all about the fun of boobs, for some women the thought of showing anyone their cleavage is enough to send them into a cold sweat.I know the agony on being flat chested. And yes I did say agony, while I don’t believe every woman with slighlty less adipose tissue on her chest is a misery, I have been on that side of the fence and I know that our society places such a big emphasis on breasts that it is hard to come away unscathed. Add to that someone telling you that you are inadequate and it is next to impossible to feel that you are in any way shape or form sexy or desirable.

I do believe that there are some awesome, strong, wonderful woman with small breasts who are happy in themselves and would never consider doing what I did. I salute them, their honesty and ability to look beyond our society and find true worth inside is what we should all strive for. I long for the day when we celebrate bodies in all shapes and sizes and breasts in all their big, small, droopy and perky glory.

I am happy I had mine done and often find myself looking at them admiringly or just having to touch to see that they are there and actually mine. They have done a lot for my confidence and maybe I should have been able to fight the demons on the past without help from surgery but I am not sorry I did it. What I can say is that I now know that there are plenty of good men out there to whom the size of your breasts does not matter and to them I say thank you. The gift you gave me of knowing I am desirable like I am is something I treasure.

One of the huge bonuses of small boobs is they are super orgasmically sensitive, makes fun times even more fun 😉 , I know from my own experience and from talking to guys who have seen the different ways woman react have to having their nipples touched. While I am not saying that large breasted woman do not have fun it seems the reaction is intensified with smaller boobs but not having done a proper study on this (and maybe I will leave it for one of the boys) I am willing to be corrected.

Boobs Boobs glorious boobs, I celebrate #NCD and pay tribute to all woman no matter their shape or size. I only wish that I had been confident enough to participate in something like this before I had my op.

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17 thoughts on “National Cleavage Day

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  2. Well, I am one of those women whom gets a cold sweat of showing of my breasts. That is why I’m not participating in the National Cleavage Day celebrations. My boobs are private and would like it to stay that way. Say what you want to but this is who I am.

    I admire the fact that you and many other women do have the guts to show off your boobs.

  3. I had augmentation done 3 months ago and loving it. I absolutely love wearing little spagetti tops and it’s fun when my partner and I go out, people are in two minds whether they are fake or not. My doc did a brilliant job, here’s to national boobie day.

  4. One of the hottest women I ever dated and made out with, had NO breast tissue. None. Just nipples. Flat.as.a.pancake. Holy shit, she was hot, hot, hot. Sensual, passionate, adventurous, multi-orgasmic. Melt you across the room, with a look.

    Geraldine. *sigh*

    There’s a saying in photography that pretty much ends all “should I buy a bigger camera?” arguments.

    “Gear is good. Vision is better.”

    The deposits of fat tissue on your chest, do not, should never, cannot define your femininity or your sexuality, and especially not your value, ladies.
    You are ALL fabulous and desirable. You are women.

  5. It’s all about breast size and while #NCD is good we mustn’t forget about breast cancer awareness too.

    It’s not about the breasts for me personally as there’s far more to a woman’s character.

    Hope you’re having a great Friday 🙂

  6. Oh wow, beautiful. I used to have a great pair of 38DD – now, post breastfeeding 3 for a year I have 38 B/C – still adequite, much more comfortable, that’s for sure. Now if the shape was a little less, well, on my navel.

  7. one thing is for sure the bigger they are now the more prone they are to sagging as we grow older … gravity :). i also believe they are proportional to the rest of u. #NationalCleavageDay is about recognizing there are those who have todo without [by choice, life and death choices 🙁 ] and my thoughts and prayers go out to them. To all the women … THx 8-), always choose life cause its for the living.

    PinkHairGirl: Sharing is caring, THx mwah

    To all woman: you are more critical of yourselves than others imperfections. Cut you some slack … enjoy being you. There is only 1, U!

  8. Might have guessed that obo the clown would have found his way here….

    That is a fine pair of top bollocks, to be sure, but I am with Obo here, small and perfectly formed please!

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