Comments on: A time to let go

By: Sharon

Sharon — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 18:07:25 +0000

We make our choices in life based on what we believe is best for us at that time and with information we have to hand at that time. In time it is possible that we will see we’ve made a wrong decision. Or maybe it isn’t wrong – maybe it made us grow in a way we wouldn’t have had we not made the “wrong” decision. Your true friends will stand by you through your “mistakes”, your ups and downs. Those that choose to ciriticise are not worth bothering over. Let them pass you by, their friendship was for a season not a lifetime.
Love you my friend, through the ups and downs xxx

By: Tanya

Tanya — Tue, 30 Mar 2010 00:53:24 +0000

dislekcia I take it from the odd comment above?

Friends should be supportive – even when they dont agree with the choices you make and let you know, they should do it gently, because they love you, right?

Onward and upward!

By: Scott

Scott — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 20:59:27 +0000

It’s hard. At what point do you say it really is over- and there will be no more contact, despite those dreams and thoughts and possibilities?
There’s no answer. You love life and move on, and look to the future. I think it;s important to have ‘closure’, but life isn’t as finite and contained as that. We reminisce, dream and fantasise, but it is waht is happening NOW that is most valuable. #2cents

By: Damaria Senne

Damaria Senne — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 11:45:23 +0000

Good luck. Also remember that life works in very strange ways. 5 years ago I said goodbye to a dear friend. Someone whom I loved but felt that we had grown in very different directions.
Late last year she phoned, we started talking, and I remembered why we’d been close friends in the first place. Apparently she also had an illuminating moment. we’re building our friendship again, and now we know what the deal breaker is for both sides.

By: Kader

Kader — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 09:41:49 +0000

The subconscious is a powerful force. In your dream, it was simply affirming what you already knew so that you could move on with a clear conscience. Go Pinkhairgirl!

By: Barb

Barb — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 09:31:46 +0000

Hugs Sal – I know how this has been hurting you.

By: dislekcia

dislekcia — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 09:27:39 +0000

Rule 1.

You never did get me. Now I don’t even get a goodbye. Even in another 8 years time you’re still going to have to rebuild trust you’ve broken now. Given how you’re making decisions at the moment, that’s probably far too much hard work, so you run. Good luck with the new solution, I guess. What happens when you have no other choices BUT hard ones?

By: cat @ juggling act

cat @ juggling act — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 08:55:22 +0000

Oh it’s tough to admit, but sometimes it is the only logical way. MAybe that dream was your way to say good-bye?

By: Pinkhairgirl

Pinkhairgirl — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 08:26:14 +0000

Angel, Jail4Bail – thank you

By: Jail4Bail

Jail4Bail — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 08:21:41 +0000

If you had 12 months to live would it be important to waist energy? You can’t unscramble scrambled eggs & can’t drive only look at the rearview mirror. Focus on the many choices on the road ahead.