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	<title>Comments on: I really just don&#8217;t know</title>
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		<title>By: Girl van die Suburbs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Girl van die Suburbs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 08:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I reckon more awareness is being created. I walked the 94.2 Sisters with Blisters on Saturday and there were more than &lt;b&gt;5000&lt;/b&gt; people who took part... and there were so many men! It might be a slow process but we are getting there.... 

What people don&#039;t understand is that an abused woman seldom leaves her abusive partner. From experience I know that you don&#039;t always see the wrong in such a situation because you start to believe you deserve it.

Parents should not only teach their sons how to respect a woman... they need to teach their daughters that they need to respect themselves enough not to allow this to happen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I reckon more awareness is being created. I walked the 94.2 Sisters with Blisters on Saturday and there were more than <b>5000</b> people who took part&#8230; and there were so many men! It might be a slow process but we are getting there&#8230;. </p>
<p>What people don&#8217;t understand is that an abused woman seldom leaves her abusive partner. From experience I know that you don&#8217;t always see the wrong in such a situation because you start to believe you deserve it.</p>
<p>Parents should not only teach their sons how to respect a woman&#8230; they need to teach their daughters that they need to respect themselves enough not to allow this to happen.</p>
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		<title>By: What can we do?&#160;&#124;&#160;Female2Female</title>
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		<dc:creator>What can we do?&#160;&#124;&#160;Female2Female</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 04:22:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Sally recently wrote an article that centres around the question &#8220;what can we, as men do?&#8221; [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Julia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 07:18:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. One of the best that I&#039;ve read so far on this subject.
I read that article that Sam wrote and was in tears with those comments. I felt so, so sad when I read them.
For me, personally it starts in the home with what our expectations are in terms of what we tolerate from our spouses/partners and what we teach our sons. For me it boils down to one thing that I am working on in terms of raising my boys. That one thing is emotional intellingence. I think that if we get this particular aspect right then everything else will start falling into place.
I am not sure if my comment is clear and I really don&#039;t know how to say it better.
xx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. One of the best that I&#8217;ve read so far on this subject.<br />
I read that article that Sam wrote and was in tears with those comments. I felt so, so sad when I read them.<br />
For me, personally it starts in the home with what our expectations are in terms of what we tolerate from our spouses/partners and what we teach our sons. For me it boils down to one thing that I am working on in terms of raising my boys. That one thing is emotional intellingence. I think that if we get this particular aspect right then everything else will start falling into place.<br />
I am not sure if my comment is clear and I really don&#8217;t know how to say it better.<br />
xx</p>
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		<title>By: Raising non violent children&#160;&#124;&#160;Female2Female</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raising non violent children&#160;&#124;&#160;Female2Female</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 03:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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