Archive for October, 2009

We all fall down

And just like that it all falls down. You have picked yourself up and dusted off and are ready to believe that maybe just maybe there is a glimmer of hope a chance not to be so lonely. Maybe there is a chance to have someone hold you and care about you. Someone to laugh with someone to make you smile and love you imperfectly. No promises of everything just...

I love being a woman

Boys looks away now, be warned what follows is lots of TMI female stuff! No really I did warn you so if you are forever traumatized by my graphic details then it is not my fault. On the other hand maybe you should read and learn. So now I love being a woman, I know the men think that they are really cool with their urinary tract extending to the outside. I...

I want my own way!

Yes yes I know that sounds like a spoiled child stamping her feet and I guess it pretty much is. I apparently threw spectacular tantrums as a child. They were dealt with severely as big emotion was not allowed or understood in my family. So I learned to suppress a lot but it does not change the fact that when I can’t do it my way I want to jump up and...

Ask me anything

I know a few people have done this on their blogs, I know Laura did it a while back and Richard did it recently, so basically the idea is that you get to ask my anything in the comments section and I will answer later. Ask 1 ask 20, just ask something! This could be quite interesting, lets see what people want to know about the pink hair chick. 10 bonus...

Dear Universe – thank you

No more emo! Pack it up and ship it out, I have had enough. Laura keeps telling me that happiness is a choice but I was dragging my feet and quite enjoying wallowing in my own stupid self pity. The lessons I learned were painful but necessary and I am now ready to face the challenges of life with a smile again. Look, don’t get me wrong, not for one...

What is love

What colour is love? is it pink and red and pretty? or is it kaleidoscopy of light and dark, multifaceted, sometimes just a translucent glow What does love sound like? is it beautiful words, a sigh, a low passionate moan? or is it the sound of a quickening heart What does love taste like? is it sweet and sensual like ripe strawberries? or is it the moment...

All for a Reason?

I am so not a completer finisher, I actually have just gotten up in the middle of doing something else because this just needed to be written right now. I had to write a Bio on my self recently and I said that ‘I write because I have to’, and it is so true sometimes the thoughts that spin loudly around in my head just need a place to come out....

I have a dream

While hauling innumerable books out of boxes during the much loved process of unpacking I came across my old Dream Diary. The one I wrote during Varsity at a time when life lay ahead full of promise and hope, and anything seemed possible. Not the kind of dream diary that you write your weird and wonderful night dreams in and try to figure out what deeper...

45 Odd things

I actually got this from an email a friend sent to me. 1. Do you like blue cheese? Yes 2. Have you ever smoked Heroin? No 3. Do you own a gun? No 4. Wax or Shave your body parts? Shave 5. Do you get nervous before doctor appointments? Depends but not usually 6. Real or fake nails? Real 7. Favourite Christmas song? My kid singing Jingle Bells 8....

Notches in the Bedpost

So I was having a discussion with Barbara about the number of sexual partners I have had in my life time and that now being single this number is probably going to grow. It is really not a big deal to me. I know that if a future partner ever asks you are supposed to lie lie deny but really is it that important? They say men add a few to their number and...

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