Comments on: Does it always hurt so much?

By: Wenchy

Wenchy — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 18:44:52 +0000

‘- that I can love and that this amazing intense emotion is out there and that it is everything that they write, sing and make movies about and maybe even more.’

One of the reasons I decided divorce was the way to go… I kept thinking somebody, somewhere must have felt it to have written/sung/spoke so much about it.

By: Janine

Janine — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 16:40:31 +0000

The love you deserve and will get, usually does arrive when one least expects it, but the wait is worth it and most importantly….you’re worth it! Things don’t happen in our time, but in His time and His time, is always perfect, no matter what You just have to keep your hands open in order to receive the gift when it is given. Lots of Love!

By: Jeanette

Jeanette — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 16:37:48 +0000

Huge (((HUGS)))

By: Gilz

Gilz — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 07:41:14 +0000

You’re an awesome woman and your pair of strong arms will come when you least expect it. Being strong takes courage.

By: Leebeesa

Leebeesa — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 06:02:17 +0000

I had my heart broken a month ago :O( and it sucks. I think for me the biggest issue was wondering what’s wrong with me, I had a friend put a lot in perspective for me he said. ‘If you like yourself then to hell with what anybody else thinks, but if you are not happy with yourself than work on changing that, because the alternative to that change is being miserable forever.’ I you seem like an incredible woman and I think you’ll pull through, you have a lot of courage and really nice hair :O) I hope you don’t mind but I am going to add you to my blog list I really like what you have to say.

By: Sharon

Sharon — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 21:28:26 +0000

It’s not easy, and sometimes it get’s harder before it get’s easier. Sometimes you just want to give up and walk away from everyone and everything, including those that you love the most. Sometimes you just don’t have the energy to love them back. Sometimes life really sucks big time, and no matter how hard you try and which angle you look at your situation, it’s kak-just plain kak!
And then one day you wake up and it’s different. You didn’t notice it changed, because it changed a while back, you just didn’t notice.

Don’t wait for the change, don’t anticipate it. Just live. Moment by moment get through your day, then your week and then the month. Change will happen, but not when you want it to and not when you expect it.

Be patient, rely on your friends and family and know there are people out there who care about you.

Lots of love and big hugs

By: Laura

Laura — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 18:17:15 +0000

There really is nothing more I can say

Tomorrow will be easier!

By: Kelly

Kelly — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 17:54:04 +0000

good for you babes! .Stick to your guns.Dont settle-even if it hurts not to!
Have you heard that song break even by the Script? Your post reminded me of it!

By: Shayne

Shayne — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 14:39:58 +0000

I think we need to feel the pain. we need to hurt. it’s what humans do. we have emotions and if we cannot live them and experience the happiness and the sadness, what is the point? and this was your first ‘big love’ since being on your own. it’s going to hurt. like hell. and i’m sure you’ve learnt a thing or two from it. prob half the reason you fell so hard is that you’ve had a loveless marriage for so long. so it makes sense that you land in the deep in first time round. you’ll get there. we all do. it just takes time, time, time. and u have a fab support team.

By: Damaria Senne

Damaria Senne — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 11:25:07 +0000

God bless you, for your bravery and honesty. I’m glad you had friends to hold you up. During the pain, sometimes feeling numb seems like an attractive option. I can tell you from my experience that feeling numb is worse. It does give you a moment to start breathing, but along the way you realise it makes for a very subtle prison. How can you live when you don’t feel? How can you experience the joy of loving when your emotions are all locked up?